You and your life

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I think, we've told you, life isn't about yourself. I think, I've told you, that no matter how much problems you have, it will only hinder you when you think life is unfair.

But is it that life is being unfair to you?

Think again. Maybe you're the one who's being unfair to yourself. Have you lost your parents? Have you been living in poverty? Have you been living life alone that you don't have any friends that can support you when you fall?

Here's the thing. I think not. I think you're lucky, you have everything everyone thinks that will complete a happy life. Are you grateful with what you have? Nope, I don't think so. Why? Why don't you try to remember; how do you treat your friends, your family, the wealth that you got from your parents. Have you been thinking that you wanted more? Have you been thinking that friends are not that important compared to your boyfriend/ girlfriend? Have you been taking the silly squabbles between you and your parents as family problem?

How wrong you are. Haven't you already got everything that is necessary for living? When was the last time you talk to your friends? Do you know that some people don't even have parents to squabble with, parents that are separated; that the word family is like running a dagger through their heart?

How naive you are, the world doesn't revolve around you, and you alone. It contains everything, the good and the bad. Say, if the people that we called 'unfortunate' think that they are the luckiest person in the world, isn't it considered as an insult to them when you said, 'My life sucks'?

Think about it. Again. When your feelings are not clouded by negative emotions.

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