Life is fair. Again.

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When all my friends are guys, I received a LOT, give LITTLE. When I got girlfriends, I learn how to give and take in balance.

I might sound like I'm complaining. I'm not. With guys, they cut some slack when they're with me, so I'm spoiled in a way. When I'm with girls, I hurt them so much with words that nobody stick around.

Well, there's a few exceptions. These girls, somehow they accepted me. My boyish side, often hurt girlfriends, and it irritate guys to no end. I guess it's to be expected, when you're something in between, there will be a lot of problems in adapting with the crowd.

I'm not saying that I have the urge to change my gender; no. I've been friends with guys so much that I talk, act and dress (a bit) like a guy myself. But I'm still a girl, through and through. I just don't act like one. I still think of myself as a girl, and enough people has reminded me that I am one.

This post has turned into a ramble, and it's getting more and more crappy. Let's forget that the title is now totally unrelated to the post, that it means I have deviated too far away from what I want to write, originally. Maybe I'll write again. After I sort my head. Thank you.

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